Reflecting on our journey, I realize that we’ve grown strong enough to handle each other’s physical presence in a world where digital connections dominate. We’ve learned to cherish the process of building a relationship, understanding that true love unfolds in stages, not weeks.
In today’s fast-paced digital landscape, connections are often reduced to a formulaic sequence: connect digitally, share intimate moments, engage in physical intimacy, break up, mourn, heal, and repeat. But genuine love demands patience, effort, and time to mature.
You wisely pointed out that love has 12 stages, each requiring time to process and nurture emotions. Like building a muscular body, enduring the physical presence of someone you love takes effort, pain, and time. I call this the incubation period of love or emotions – a crucial phase where emotions strengthen and become resilient.
I’ve coined the term “Cabbage effect” to describe the way women who know their worth open up gradually, like the layers of a cabbage. It takes time and effort to unwrap their complexity, making them all the more captivating and endearing.
In our journey, we’ve learned to embrace the processes of love, healing, and growth. We’ve come to understand that true connection requires time, patience, and dedication. And for that, I am eternally grateful.