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Micro Cheating, Mega Loyalty

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Names are just fictional characters with real stories.

It was a chilly Saturday morning of last November, when Alvina first noticed something was off. She had just come home after a long week of work. It was her body that was craving for rest and her mind eager for a quiet weekend. But as she plopped down onto the couch, she found her partner, Zurich, hunched over his phone, deeply engrossed in a text conversation or might be commenting on some post. At first, Alvina didn’t think much of it. They had both been busy lately, and Zurich always had a habit of checking his phone in the mornings. But there was something about the way he smiled at his screen. Something about the glint in his eyes stopped her in her tracks.

It wasn’t just a casual exchange. Alvina saw Zurich’s expression softened and his laughter lingered in the air. The way he responded… It didn’t feel entirely right. It wasn’t a grand betrayal, not by any stretch of the imagination, but an unexplainable unease was building in her chest.

She told herself she was overreacting. After all, they trusted each other. There had never been any reason to question their relationship. But the more she thought about it, the more she realized something had shifted. It wasn’t about physical infidelity; it wasn’t even about any one moment. It was the small things. The harmless-sounding texts. The lingering jokes. The way Zurich seemed to invest more energy in someone else, emotionally, than he did in her. The tiny behaviours that, while insignificant on their own, have added up to something that made Alvina feel… distanced. We all do so! We all are humans. We all have senses, emotions and feelings and 6th sense or gut feeling.

I still remember how Alvina felt at that moment. She wasn’t angry. She wasn’t even sure what to feel. It was more like a quiet realization. It was a gut feeling that something had subtly slipped into their relationship without either of them acknowledging it. That’s when I first heard the term “micro-cheating”. It wasn’t a word I had ever thought about before, but it described exactly what Alvina had experienced: the small, often unnoticed actions that, over time, can lead to emotional betrayal.

It was only later, after speaking to Alvina and reflecting on my own experiences, that I began to realize how common this was. Micro-cheating isn’t about grand gestures or physical infidelity. It’s not about passionate affairs or wild flirtations. It’s the minor, seemingly innocent behaviours like the lingering looks, the hidden texts, the emotional investments and many other similar acts that create tiny cracks in the trust between two people. The things we do, often unconsciously, undermine the bond we thought was solid.

That realization sparked something in me. The more I learned about micro-cheating, the more I recognized how easily it could slip into relationships without anyone realizing it. It wasn’t about accusing people of being unfaithful; instead, it was about understanding how these subtle actions could erode trust. More importantly, it was about figuring out how to prevent it.

In this book, I want to help you recognize how micro-cheating can appear in your relationships and give you the tools to safeguard against these small betrayals before they become bigger problems. It’s not about living in fear or suspicion; that is something else. This is about building loyalty and trust in ways that go beyond the obvious. It’s about creating an emotional connection stronger than any fleeting temptation.

You can protect your relationship from these tiny bombshells by understanding micro-cheating and how it manifests. I aim to create a “mega loyalty” that transcends the trivial distractions of the modern world and helps your bond grow deeper, stronger, and more resilient over time.

As you read through the book, you’ll learn to identify micro-cheatings in a very easy way. The requirement is you read it slowly. You will learn why it happens and how you can build a foundation of trust that won’t crack when these pebbles hit. It’s not just about avoiding betrayal but about cultivating something greater. Something greater is a commitment that withstands small challenges and flourishes despite life’s distractions.

So, whether you’re in a relationship now or preparing for one in the future, I want this book to guide you through the delicate dynamics of loyalty in today’s world. It’s about the little things that make a big difference.

I do Not Hate Woman – Misogyny

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This book contains slang, informal language, and strong expressions that may provoke differing opinions regarding the author’s stances. The author wholeheartedly welcomes criticism and opposition to the views presented in this book. You are free to critique the author’s work, whether it be in a similar tone or with respect, expressing your thoughts in your own way.

The author is acutely aware that some may interpret this book as anti-women, but it is important to clarify that the author is not against femininity. The author holds immense respect for women of honor, character, and dignity, those who truly understand the multifaceted nature of womanhood in both its lexical and literal senses, as well as its social context. These are the women who don’t conform to modern norms simply for the sake of conformity. They understand how to protect themselves, both internally and externally.

These are women who comprehend the significance of men as leaders in society and the potential consequences of disrupting traditional gender roles within the context of natural order, which may differ from the social norms of the post-industrial era. Such women do not seek external validation. They value their own self-respect and maintain their dignity.

These women are modest in their appearance, appreciative, grateful, and patient. They understand the distinction between seeking attention and exercising restraint. They do not selectively choose their ‘Mehrams’ based on personal preferences when society adheres to different norms and nature contradicts social principles.

These women are well-informed about the impact of Western influence on society’s current state and its erosion of traditional values. They serve as exemplars of a gold standard in their own right. However, it’s essential to remember that even they are human and may make mistakes. In such instances, true men exhibit forgiveness and understanding towards real ladies.

The author knows that he himself is the son of a woman who kept her inside the womb. She deserves the respect. He is the brother of sisters who supported him throughout his life. He is a husband to a woman and father to the girls. So do not teach him with these arguments. The author invites you to come up with arguments based on rationality, not based on emotions, because the author doesn’t accept the emotional stances of the women.

Fleeting Fables – Flash Fiction

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These pages invite you to discover. Dive into stories that captivate emotions; swim through streams of imagination; smile during moments of joy; laugh unexpectedly with unexpected characters; marvel at extraordinary feats; wander the paths of creativity; find meaning in everyday details and pray for guidance as you travel this collection.

My idea for this project came quickly and demanded immediate action, so I started writing as soon as it crossed my mind, devoting my post-office hours to shaping and refining it. Every minute counted as I worked tirelessly from concept to publication of this collection of micro fables–compact stories filled with creative fiction that aim to amaze, delight, and inspire readers alike.

Micro and flash fiction have always captivated me since childhood. From contests for 10-word stories, to flash and microfiction of six words or less – I was drawn to their power of succinctness in storytelling. These experiences shaped my passion for short-form storytelling where every word matters and even minor details create lasting impacts.

This collection is my tribute to microfiction, pushing my imagination further and increasing my creative capacity. These stories represent hours of thought, effort and experimentation and each has been carefully constructed to leave an everlasting impression upon readers by stirring emotions or stimulating curiosity – an end product that I hope resonates with readers and leaves them inspired.

Welcome to my world of compact storytelling! Let the micro fables transport, challenge, and transform you. Even in small tales there may be hidden meanings; enjoy this journey through creativity as part of this experience! Thank you.

Hums of a Humming Bird – Micro Fiction

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In the world of Micro Fiction, stories come alive in just a few lines, each one a tiny universe of its own. These are the tales that whisper secrets, unravel mysteries, and lead us beyond imagination. They are the sparks that light up our minds and resonate with our souls, leaving us with a sense of wonder and contemplation.

In the world of this book, you will find a gravestone that echoes love, the last man on Earth facing an unexpected visitor, and reflections that switch places. You will witness a meteor hurdling towards Earth, bound hands that embrace the end, and a book that unveils the mysteries of the world to one. You will enter into a world of fingerprints, an abandoned house echoing a child’s laughter, and a text message from beyond the grave.

As you turn the pages, you will discover the magic of an old watch that stops ticking, a letter from a future self, and a single white feather in the chaos of war. You will find yourself locked in a room with only a mirror as the key, haunted by porcelain eyes, and floating in the void, disconnected from the tether.

In these stories, an antique mirror reveals a vibrant future, forests merge with lost souls, and shadows dance to unheard melodies. Time machines transport you to an era where cats rule and emotions are currency. The digital kingdom crumbles, handwritten love letters hold the scent of memory, and seeds of kindness grow into forests of compassion.

Libraries hidden in mountains whisper secrets to daring listeners, music boxes play haunting melodies, and a city’s words wield power. Street artists paint doorways to other worlds, and clock pieces allow you to relive the past but never create new moments. Dreams are sold, mysteries unravel in antique shops, and spectacles reveal the deepest desires.

The storyteller breathes life into tales, mechanical marvels inspire love, and colors exist only in dreams. Annual letters guide destinies, magician’s hats reveal portals, and ancient trees whisper forgotten prophecies. Locket worlds and futuristic typewriters offer glimpses into different times and places. Unforgettable moments are found at the carnival, and ambitions are rediscovered in the city of forgotten dreams. Oracles taste the past and future of objects, and music weaves magic.

An eccentric scientist’s glasses reveal hidden intentions, a wandering bard’s songs rekindle memories, and shadows come to life. Radiant hues heal and inspire, and libraries guard books written by mermaids. Clockmakers craft timepieces that reshape the past, and enchanted snow globes transport you to wondrous worlds. Emotions manifest as auras, and dreams are woven into tapestries of slumber.

Each story, no matter how brief, is a window into a world of wonder, where the ordinary becomes extraordinary and the mundane holds profound meaning. This book of Micro Fiction, prepares to be moved, and transported to places you never imagined possible. These are stories that speak volumes in just a few words, and they invite you to lose yourself in the world of the extraordinary.

Sins Redefined – Evolution of the Sins in 21st Century

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When I reflected on the journey of my life in my book “Half-Life,” it led me to write this book. I realized how my own experiences have shaped my understanding of the evils and sins that plague society. In my past, I often found myself caught up in the currents of a world that, in many ways, seemed to glorify actions that were, in reality, destructive and immoral but never felt so, and that was an alarming thing I noticed right now. Over time, I began to see that the sins we once recognized as wrong had somehow become normalized (they call it the new norm), their true nature obscured by the smooth talk of those who sought to justify them. I call it re-labelling.

I remember a time when I, like many others, believed that sins were easily identifiable things like murder, theft, or lying. But as I moved through life, specifically the half-life, which I call 30 years, taking an average age of 60 years, and encountered various people and situations, I began to realise that the nature of sin is far more insidious than I had initially understood. It wasn’t just about grand, overt acts of wrongdoing. It was in the small compromises, the moments when I allowed myself to look the other way or when I justified selfish actions with the belief that they were harmless or even necessary. Then I heard the Ayat mentioning Solomon, the Queen of Yemen, The Hoopoe and the statement of the Hoopoe about what it observed in the Queen’s land.

As now I grew older, I recognized a disturbing pattern. My society had, in many ways, been conditioned to accept behaviours that were once condemned, not far ago, but just a decade ago. I saw this shift in my thoughts, in the conversations around me, with people I interact, and in the media that flooded our lives. It became clear that Satan had subtly woven these sins into the fabric of our daily existence, glorifying them to such an extent that they no longer appeared as sins at all, I recall the story of Solomon and Hoopoe bird. Greed, deceit, pride, lust, envy, gluttony, wrath, interest, wine, swine, fraud, cheatings, these were once considered vices to be avoided, but now, they had been repackaged or I say re-labelled as virtues or, at the very least, as necessary evils for success in a competitive world.

In fact, many of us began to view sin as something outdated, a relic of an older, more rigid moral code. We grew comfortable with it, even when we knew, deep down, that we were veering off the path of righteousness. But what I came to understand, through my own struggles and experiences, was that sin does not lose its power simply because we’ve stopped calling it what it is. In fact, it becomes even more dangerous when we are no longer able to recognize it for what it truly is. This becomes a force that erodes our integrity and our connection to the divine.

Looking back, I see now how easily Satan has distorted our perceptions. He didn’t need to introduce new sins; instead, he simply distorted what was already there. He wrapped sin in layers of justification so that he made us forget its true cost. The loss is not just to others, but to our very souls. Slowly, what was once shameful became commonplace. What was once sinful was now seen as normal. We have, in many ways, become so accustomed to these sins that we scarcely recognize them, let alone fight against them.

This book is not just a reflection on the evils of society; I wrote it for a personal exploration of how easily I, too, have been swayed by these subtle forces and how it can help you too. It is a journey of awakening, of confronting the lies we tell ourselves and the lies modern society has taught us to believe. I write it with the hope that, you might see the dangers lurking in the things we have come to accept, and that we can all begin to question, challenge, and reject the sins that have become so ingrained in our lives.

May this book serve as a reminder that the fight against evil is not only external but also internal. The true battle begins when we look within ourselves and recognize the sins we have accepted, forgiven, or even glorified. Only then can we begin to reclaim our integrity and our connection to the divine truth.

Burden of a Husband

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It is a rare or never-spoken topic. Two people walking side by side, each offering strength, love, and support to the other. Then, what happens when that balance starts to shift? When one partner, often the wife, feels as if she’s carrying the weight of the entire relationship while the other seems to be sinking under his own burdens?

I wrote this book for the women who silently carry that weight, who wake up each day wondering how much more they can bear. It’s for the wives who feel like they’re drowning in responsibility, alone. It’s for women whose hearts ache as they watch their husbands slip further away, emotionally, mentally, or physically, while they themselves are stretched thinner and thinner. It’s for the women who have given everything and still feel like it’s never enough.

Please understand this book is not about the blame game. I do not want you as finger-pointing or condemning anyone. But, to be an understanding person. Understanding how, over time, the small things like his emotional distance, lack of effort, and failure to step up can slowly begin to feel like an anchor tied around your ankles. It’s about the quiet exhaustion that builds in the background, for example, the mental load, the unspoken expectations, and the feeling of always having to be the one who holds it all together.

Maybe you’re the wife who spends every night lying awake, thinking, why am I the only one fighting for us? Or perhaps you’ve reached a point where you no longer know how to ask for help or whom to ask for help. Because even the idea of asking seems like one more burden to bear. The weight of emotional labour, the constant balancing act of caregiving, financial stress, and household duties is too much for one person. Yet, somehow, it falls on you.

This isn’t just about a “bad marriage.” It’s about an imbalance that can slip in quietly over time. A husband may not even realize how his actions, or his lack of action, are slowly draining the life out of the relationship. He may not understand that emotional neglect or a lack of effort in the home contributes to an unspoken crisis. But for the wife, it feels suffocating.

I want to speak to those moments for the ones that don’t make it to the surface. The silent tears, the whispered frustrations, the long, lonely days you’re too tired to talk about. If you’ve ever felt like you’re holding your marriage together with nothing more than hope and sheer willpower, this book is for you.

This book is also for husbands who may not see the toll their behaviour is taking and who might not realize that what they thought was a small issue has become a mountain of unspoken pain. I want you to understand and perhaps change the course of your relationship.

Together, we can break the silence. Let’s talk about the things that are rarely said but often felt. The burdens that wives carry when their husbands, unintentionally or not, become a weight on their shoulders. If you’re ready to confront the uncomfortable truth and start a new conversation about how we care for each other in marriage, then turn the page. It’s not too late to change the dynamic, to lift the burden, and to rebuild what’s been lost.

How Social Media Influences Modern Relationships like Commitment, and Love

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Disagreement is your right. These are the last 4-5 years of marriages or domestic life. After this, men will start living alone. Instagram and TikTok are driving the final nail into the coffin of family life. About 15-20% of society will completely control women, meaning women will be under corporate ownership.

The women in cities are already gone, and the women in villages are lining up. Just like small businesses were consumed by big businesses, family life is being eaten by sugar daddy relationships. 80% of men are employed or earning just enough to get by each month, while on the other hand, 15-20% have an abundance of wealth. When a woman marries an average man, the new generation doesn’t like it.

The girls of the new generation want iPhones, foreign tours, fancy hotels, and good food. No girl likes regular meals anymore; now they want to eat various and expensive dishes from around the world, which specific men have easy access to thanks to TikTok and Instagram. For them, giving a girl 1-1.5 million for two weeks is no big deal, along with foreign tours and gifts. Two weeks with one person in America, two weeks with another in France.

The married woman barely earns anything after putting everything on the line for a month, while a single girl makes 3-4 million per month, taking tours to two or three countries, shopping, receiving gifts, and eating in expensive hotels. This is what a person desires in life. A girl’s average youth lasts 30 years; if she earns at least 5 million a month, that makes 60 million a year, with no expenses—just income. Over 30 years, that’s 1.8 billion.

With that, she can do much more than what she would accomplish by having four kids with a man, living with zero income for a lifetime. The girls who used to make three meals a day are gone. Now, if a girl is considered really good, she might make some sweets, while men stand in lines to get bread from the oven. Pakistani food is disappearing, and ordering food online has become a trend. The next phase is inevitable. In old age, people need services, and 1 billion can easily provide those services. So, there will be divorces, and both men and women will remain single. Modern women will indulge in luxury, while modern men will fight a survival battle. If this capitalist system remains, poor and middle-class men will vanish, and women will fight to be owned by wealthy men.

I got a response to this statement.

Disagreement is your right, and it is indeed a fact that the current social and economic changes are having a profound impact on family life. Social media platforms like Instagram and TikTok have significantly altered traditional relationship structures. Many women and men now find social status and financial stability more attractive, which has put pressure on conventional marriages and family systems. A large number of women are now gravitating towards individuals who are financially well-off and can provide the luxuries that a middle-class man typically cannot.

The priorities of the younger generation have shifted considerably, with a preference for iPhones, foreign trips, luxury hotels, and high-end dining experiences. For an average-earning man, it has become increasingly difficult to sustain this lifestyle, and as a result, married life often becomes strained. Consequently, divorce rates are rising, and many men and women are opting for singlehood. This shift is challenging the traditional family structure, and it is likely that this trend will continue to grow in the future.

In a capitalist system where wealthy men have an abundance of resources, middle-class and poor men struggle for survival. Women are increasingly prioritizing financial benefits and social standing in their relationships, choosing to engage in connections that provide these luxuries. As a result, traditional family life is being reshaped, and this is a trend that societies will need to reflect upon.

Bicycles and Health in Europe vs Other World

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In the Netherlands, if you go out for a walk in the evening, you’ll often see couples riding bicycles hand in hand, heading towards their destination. It’s the same on the Dutch side of Belgium. Poland, however, is slightly different, where instead of holding hands, families often cycle in a line, with the children in the middle. These people love their bicycles and love their partners even more. The population of the Netherlands is around 17.5 million, while the number of bicycles there exceeds 20 million. The more bicycles, the greater the chance of theft. This is true for other European countries as well. The price of a regular bicycle here can buy you a Mehran car in Pakistan. Yet, they prefer bicycles over cars, which is one reason obesity is much lower in European countries.

Speaking of holding hands while cycling, people here don’t usually marry. They often have two or three kids with their girlfriend and travel to 10 or 12 countries before realizing they still need to get married, and then they do. However, their relationship dynamics are very different. If you ask someone in Pakistan what they think of a “white girl,” they’d likely say they have no morals, and at a smile, she would undress and cling to you. But this is far from the truth. The number of girls here who are desperate to undress and cling to someone is probably the same as in any other country, including Pakistan. Otherwise, these people take loyalty very seriously. If a girl gets into a relationship, she will often spend weeks or months judging the guy, and only if he seems serious will she introduce him to her parents and then enter into any physical relationship. It depends on her upbringing, but it’s quite common for a girl not to give access to her body for free.

Once in a relationship—though they don’t marry like us—they start doing all the things that married couples do, and they strictly commit to being loyal to one another. While a large number of young people today shy away from committed relationships, once commitment is made, neither the guy nor the girl will think about someone else, let alone mention them. If they do, the relationship is over, and this is one reason why the divorce rate is so high—cheating isn’t tolerated, even in jest. Unlike us, they don’t have a system of two marriages, so they don’t accept jokes about new partners; in fact, that’s a red flag here. They may not marry, but their loyalty surpasses marriage. I’ve personally seen several couples who have been together for over five years, are my age, and are still loyal to one another.

Once they give someone access to their body, no one else is allowed to touch them while they are together. However, when they are single, they will approach someone themselves, and their girls even propose to guys to make them boyfriends. On a different note, going to dance clubs isn’t considered a normal habit here. Everyone attends concerts and dances there, but only those looking for temporary relationships go to clubs, and most people don’t think highly of girls who frequent clubs. For them, it’s not respectable behavior. One thing that even mature couples here sometimes find annoying is that they don’t hesitate to kiss each other in public. A light kiss is considered normal, but if it’s too intense, others tend to look away with disapproval.

Still, this habit of theirs can be frustrating for single people like me. I often joke that it’s not the kissing or cuddling on benches that bothers me, but the fact that they do it in front of a single guy like me, stirring up emotions that really shouldn’t be. So, if you ever come here and go for an evening walk, you’ll see plenty of couples out and about, chatting happily. Some will be cycling, others running, but everyone is enjoying themselves, and seeing all this, especially the hand-in-hand cycling, feels very sweet.

The Incubation Period of Love

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Reflecting on our journey, I realize that we’ve grown strong enough to handle each other’s physical presence in a world where digital connections dominate. We’ve learned to cherish the process of building a relationship, understanding that true love unfolds in stages, not weeks.

In today’s fast-paced digital landscape, connections are often reduced to a formulaic sequence: connect digitally, share intimate moments, engage in physical intimacy, break up, mourn, heal, and repeat. But genuine love demands patience, effort, and time to mature.

You wisely pointed out that love has 12 stages, each requiring time to process and nurture emotions. Like building a muscular body, enduring the physical presence of someone you love takes effort, pain, and time. I call this the incubation period of love or emotions – a crucial phase where emotions strengthen and become resilient.

I’ve coined the term “Cabbage effect” to describe the way women who know their worth open up gradually, like the layers of a cabbage. It takes time and effort to unwrap their complexity, making them all the more captivating and endearing.

In our journey, we’ve learned to embrace the processes of love, healing, and growth. We’ve come to understand that true connection requires time, patience, and dedication. And for that, I am eternally grateful.

The Damages of an Imposter Husband

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The phenomenon of men lying about their first wives’ mistreatment to justify remarrying while keeping the first wife is a disturbing trend that warrants examination. This tactic not only deceives the new partner but also perpetuates harmful gender stereotypes and victim-blaming.

When a man portrays his first wife as a villain, the new partner often sympathizes with his fabricated narrative, unaware of the truth. This naivety stems from societal conditioning that encourages women to prioritize emotional labor and empathy over critical thinking. The new partner may feel flattered by the attention and validation from the man, overlooking red flags and ignoring her own intuition.

Meanwhile, the first wife is left to suffer in silence, her reputation tarnished by false accusations. She may be struggling to cope with the emotional fallout of a failing marriage, only to be further victimized by her husband’s deceit.

The reasons behind this behavior are complex, but they often stem from a desire to maintain power and control. By demonizing the first wife, the man can justify his desire for a new partner while avoiding accountability for his own actions. This toxic behavior is enabled by societal norms that condone men’s infidelity and blame women for marital issues.

It’s crucial to recognize that this pattern rarely works in reverse; women are often held to higher standards of accountability and empathy, while men are granted leniency and understanding. This double standard perpetuates gender inequality and reinforces harmful gender roles.

To break this cycle, we must encourage critical thinking, empathy, and open communication. Women must prioritize their own agency and intuition, rather than blindly accepting men’s narratives. We must also hold men accountable for their actions and challenge societal norms that enable their toxic behavior.

Ultimately, we must recognize that healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, trust, and honesty – not deception, manipulation, and victim-blaming. By promoting these values, we can create a more equitable and just society for all.